When you talk to any average guy about attracting women, you will usually get the conversation steered towards the subject of what they consider to be the best "pick-up lines." Many guys always want to know, "What is the one magic line I can deliver that will make women just fall into my arms immediately?" But there is no magic set of words that will automatically make women "swoon" at your feet. You see, whenever you deliver any sort of "canned" or prepared line, you come across as a fake individual without any creativity or spontaneity. And women do not get attracted to men who have no creativity. On the other hand, women love men who can be inventive. So, what all this means is that there is a wrong way to approach women (pick-up lines) and the correct way (creative conversation). The creative conversation is GUARANTEED to generate attraction and portray you as a Man who knows how to handle women and push the right buttons. And that formula follows a particular pattern: (1) it should APPEAR spontaneous and relevant to the time and place you meet the woman, and (2) it should be a PLAYFUL comment or statement that is directed at the woman or the situation at the time. Here is an example of creative conversation. You are at a book-store looking at some books on the shelf and you spot an attractive girl beside you. You say something like this: "Hey, I couldn't help but notice you've been standing there reading for quite a while now. I see you've discovered my little trick of reading all the books you want in here without having to buy them, I can't believe I'm busted! I've been sneaking a read in here for years to save money. But I thought beautiful, stunning women like you were already rich and didn't copy my "freebie" tricks. I'm shocked!" Of course when you deliver this kind of statement, your body language and voice tone should clearly come across as very friendly and it should be obvious that you're joking in your playful "accusation" of what she's appearing to do with the books in the store. I have actually used statements like this to get fantastic results almost 100% of the time. You see, by making your creative conversation funny and playful but relevant to the ENVIRONMENT you happen to be in at the timeyou demonstrate the fact that you're creative and spontaneous. This is the kind of wit that women find deeply attractive in a man. Now, you might be thinking that it would be very difficult to always come up with a quick relevant comment every time, which is also funny and playful. Well, the good news is thatYou don't have to always create it "on the fly." A very clever thing you could do is to come up with a creative conversation statement for a few different situations and plan your delivery on each one. So for example, you could come up with statements for meeting a girl at the supermarket, at the bus station, at a bar, at a coffee shop, in a library, e.t.c. And the more you practice this, the better you'll get at it. Now, I should point out here that your aim here is not to learn and memorise these comments and remember them like "pick-up" lines. It's just to give you a structure so that you can apply it, adjust and "tweak" the words to fit any situation you happen to find yourself in at any time. |
