Are you a winner in life? Do you consider yourself a winner at work, hobbies and in caring for your family? Do you wonder why other humans sit around and complain about every little thing and never get anything done, living in mediocrity and self-doubt? Arent you glad you are not like them? They wish they could have your life and your trappings of success and they are often jealous of these things, yet they could have them too only they will not work to achieve them. Perhaps when you find someone like this, next time they compliment you on something you have achieved or a item you have; why not explain to the about work ethic, dedication and attention to details. Talk to the about personal ethics, strength of character and perseverance. You will be doing them a big favor and maybe even wake them up to get on the ball and go do something rather than sitting around and blaming everything and everyone else for their current situation? In studies and research on winners and losers it is amazing the similarities, there is not a lot which separates the two different groups really. Most is motivation based and well, some people are missing that spark. It is up to you to find that spark in others and help that flame inside them to be re-ignited and help them find that fire that burns in your veins. Each month you should pick two or three worthy souls and help them to see that light and to turn them back on. You will be glad you did, we all will. Thank you for considering this. |